Of pure love and romantic love

Oh I believe in love and the power of positive thinking and that love triumphs over other motivations. I also believe that love makes you stronger and supports you and helps you grow; that it can change people; that compassion can come only though love. I believe in the power of self love, maternal, paternal, fraternal, community love. I understand there's love for art and aesthetics and love for vocation and places and activities. 

But I have my doubts on romantic love - it some how makes you do stupid things, weakens you and then after all that drama, in most cases, fades.